Cassie Q

Do you know how people long for that one person who will make their life feel like a sitcom? Just full of fun, smart comebacks at every moment of their time together... I have no evidence for this observation, so if you follow me, you follow me. Well I have no sitcom to offer, and I have worried myself sick about how am I supposed to convince someone to date a disabled chick who can't even tell a joke. You might think that there are people out there who enjoy a darker approac

Everyone has their little web of aggravators, things that stops them from moving forward and forces a detour. Sometimes with disabilities, this web gets so detailed and so layered that it might seem impossible to move. I fear that one day it will be impossible to move. So many times I jumped to decisions because I just didn’t have the space to explore myself. So many times I didn’t hang out after class because I had no idea how to fix the need to pee and it just seemed easier

Have you ever had something so bad happen to you that it divided your life in a before and an after? That was her to me. She was all I've ever wanted to explore, every little corner, every dark secret pulling me in, deeper, lower. Back then, I wanted to draw something that would tell her what wonderful things she meant to me if she ever saw it, and I thought the drawing would be of something like a golden angel high above, but instead what was revealed to me was a spiral. She

I always felt like making out was something way above my reach, something that no one would want to do with an unmovable box. Now I'm starting to open up to using other resources, so we'll see how that goes. The fact is, that for better or for worse, box dating takes a deep challenging of all boxed ideals of what love has to look like, and I feel ready to find the person willing to explore other shapes with me. - for the first one #love #sex